Showing posts with label marry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marry. Show all posts

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Before You Get Married

I received this via e mail the other day...I think it is a good one, which every guy should read..:)

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name.

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you.

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities.

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met.

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Why Marry?

In Star newspaper today:

Bride dumped at matchmaking agency

KUALA LUMPUR: A 47-year-old businessman dumped his young Vietnamese wife at the matchmaking agency just 17 days after their wedding and demanded a full refund.

The man, who had paid RM13,800 to the matchmaking agency, also took the passport belonging to the 22-year-old woman, identified only as Ngo, from Ho Chi Minh City.

“He complained that he could not communicate with her (Ngo could only speak Viet­na­mese), she wouldn’t wear the clothes he bought for her, and that she kept saying she wanted to go back to Vietnam.

“He left her in front of my office on March 30,” the matchmaking agent, who only wanted to be known as Ben, told reporters at the MCA Pu­­­­blic Services and Complaints Bureau.


What?
What nonsense.
Why would anyone marry someone who can't understand whatever they say?
Weird.